sup, i'm athena

i always knew i was different.
too much. too deep. too nice. too smart.
turns out, that wasn’t the problem...

i grew up behind a white picket fence.
the kind built to look perfect and hide everything.
control was normal. perfection was expected.
my mother called herself “mother dearest.”
iykyk.

love came with fear. silence came with rules.
so i adapted.
good girl. caretaker. hyper-independent.
i learned how to survive by being useful.

survival works.
until it doesn’t.

for over 30 years, my body stayed offline.
frozen. disconnected. performing “fine.”
until my nervous system finally said no.

that was the beginning.

i’ve been no contact with my parents for years.
i’m healing sexual trauma. relationship trauma.
marriage pain. mother wounds.
i’m breaking silence that felt ancestral.
grieving what never existed.
doing the work my lineage avoided.

and i’m still here.
raw. honest. rebuilding in real time.

♑︎ sun • ♋︎ moon • ♍︎ rising
hello RBF.

now i build safety from the inside out.
empathy is instinct. bluntness is required.
i read people fast and deep. always have.

my intuition isn’t a vibe. it’s inherited.
i don’t skim the surface.
i work in the wound.
and i rise from it.

every. single. time.

your chart, stripped to the bones

make sense of who you are, how you move & what could be holding you back. you leave with clarity and a plan you can use right away.

<3

clarity session

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book a call, vibe check included...
bullsh*t not

weekly sessions + real-time support to break old loops and build new habits.
astrology helps us see patterns... coaching helps us change them.

this is for you if...
→ you “understand your patterns" & nothing is shifting
→ you’re high-functioning but feel like a fraud underneath
→ you’ve done therapy & you're tired of talking
→ you’re sick of being the fixer
→ you’re ready for real change

i won’t fix you. i’ll remind you who you are.
chaos code is the permission slip and the structure you’ve been craving.
your whole life can shift. lfg.

(1:1 coaching + support)

chaos code

why me?

because i’m not scared of your truth.

i’ve been to hell and back and i’m still standing. i know what it feels like to live through things that change you. i also know what it takes to rebuild yourself from the inside out.

my chart makes me built for this...
scorpio mars. 3rd house. capricorn mercury.

translation?
i can hold heavy conversations without flinching. i can say the honest thing without being cruel. and i can make you feel emotionally safe while we get real.

i love the moment when someone realizes...
“oh fuck… you see me.” that’s not magic.
that’s pattern recognition + presence + experience.

you’ll walk away validated, clearer, and grounded.
and we won’t just talk about your life. we’ll build a plan that actually fits you.

i don’t always have “the” answer.
but i know how to help you find your answer...
and follow through.

love you, no take backs

because i’m not scared of your truth.

i’ve been to hell and back and i’m still standing. i know what it feels like to live through things that change you. i also know what it takes to rebuild yourself from the inside out.

my chart makes me built for this... scorpio mars. 3rd house. capricorn mercury.

translation? i can hold heavy conversations without flinching. i can say the honest thing without being cruel. and i can make you feel emotionally safe while we get real.

i love the moment when someone realizes... “oh fuck… you see me.” that’s not magic.
that’s pattern recognition + presence + experience.

you’ll walk away validated, clearer, and grounded.
we won’t just talk about your life. we’ll build a plan that actually fits you.

i don’t always have “the” answer.
but i know how to help you find your answer...
and follow through.